Privacy Policy

What we collect

Profile details: your name, date of birth (used only to confirm you are 18 or older), gender, and city.

Photos: the three profile photos you upload.

Voice intro: your short recorded audio introduction.

Approximate location: a coarse location accurate to about one kilometre. We never store or share your exact GPS position.

Questionnaire answers: your personality, relationship-goal, red-flag, and preference responses, which power the compatibility engine.

Messages: the text you send to people you have matched with.

How we use it

To build your daily set of compatible people and to run the reveal-and-match flow.

To keep the community safe: we review reported photos, voice, and messages and can suspend accounts that break the rules.

To send you notifications you have allowed, such as new matches or new messages. Notification text never includes the contents of a message.

Who can see your profile

A woman is invisible to men until she accepts a match. Only then is her profile revealed, and only to that one man. This is enforced in our database, not just the app.

Men cannot browse women at all.

We do not sell your data and we do not use it for third-party advertising.

Retention and deletion

You can delete your account at any time from Profile, Delete account. Deletion is immediate and permanent: your profile, photos, voice intro, matches, and chats are erased.

Limited safety records (for example, a report someone filed about your account) may be kept in anonymized form so we can enforce our rules, as allowed by law.

Your choices

You can edit or remove your photos, voice, bio, and answers at any time.

You can turn notifications off in your device settings.

You can report or block anyone from inside a chat or a recommendation.

Contact

Questions about your privacy? Email us at support@detme.com and we will help.